Optimize transport layer

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What is the purpose of the change

do some optimization in transport layer

Brief changelog

1. optimize lock-wait by double-check when waitTcpConnectEvent.
2. always addTimerCallback in invokeAsync for avoid memory leak when pass NULL cbw and not response.

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