Provide Arrow Schema Hint to Parquet Reader - Alternative 2 (#5939)

* Adds option for providing a schema to the Arrow Parquet Reader.

* Adds more complete tests.

Adds a more detailed error message for incompatible columns.

Adds nested fields to test_with_schema.

Adds test for incompatible nested field.

Updates documentation.

* Add an example using showing how to use the with_schema option.

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Co-authored-by: Eric Fredine <eric.fredine@beanworks.com>