Update Windows GitHub Hosted runner to use Windows > 2019

### Describe the enhancement requested

Windows-2019 is being deprecated by GitHub we should update the GitHub runners for the release workflow that currently uses it.
See:
- https://github.com/actions/runner-images/issues/12045

Our code:
https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/blob/acbc138f75711fc94e842f9b306a48a5a233bca8/.github/workflows/rc.yml#L301