[BugFix] Resolve Delete Semantics Data Loss in Flink SQL for StarRocks 3.1

[andystenhe]

In the 3.1 storage-computation separated version, using the INSERT INTO statement in Flink SQL will lose data with Delete semantics.

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• Refactor
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Which issues of this PR fixes ：

Fixes #364

Problem Summary(Required) ：

In the storage-computation separated version, the primary key information is not stored in the information_schema.COLUMNS table, causing the Flink connector to fail to detect the primary key and assume that the StarRocks table does not support writing Flink delete rowkind data.

Solution: Determine whether to support delete semantics based on the primary key declaration in the Flink table.

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