Gateway API TLSRouteInvalidReferenceGrant conformance test

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Problem Statement

The test TLSRouteInvalidReferenceGrant has been recently added upstream and is going to be shipped in 0.8.0. Such a test aims to check that the ungranted reference is not allowed by the controller. We have such a logic in the HTTPRoute controller, but not yet in the TLSRoute controller.

Additional Information

Since TLSRoute conformance is currently on-hold, and this issue is very related to it, we can likely mark it as a nice-to-have.
An ideal implementation would be creating a common pattern to check such a ReferenceGrant condition to be shared among all the Route types.

Acceptance Criteria

• The test TLSRouteInvalidReferenceGrant is enabled and passes.