Partially revert #42919

The change to RPATH setting for macOS seems to have improved the
situation for users on Monterey, but the other changes in #42919 that
affect other platforms seem to have caused regressions on musl Linux
(#42940) and FreeBSD (#42944). The easiest thing to do here is to keep
the changes from #42919 as they apply to macOS but revert the others.

Author: ararslan

Make.inc

@@ -1198,10 +1198,10 @@ else ifeq ($(OS), Darwin)
   RPATH_ESCAPED_ORIGIN := $(RPATH_ORIGIN)
   RPATH_LIB := -Wl,-rpath,'@loader_path/'
 else
-  RPATH := -Wl,-rpath,'$$ORIGIN/$(build_libdir_rel)' -Wl,-rpath-link,$(build_shlibdir) -Wl,-z,origin
+  RPATH := -Wl,-rpath,'$$ORIGIN/$(build_libdir_rel)' -Wl,-rpath,'$$ORIGIN/$(build_private_libdir_rel)' -Wl,-rpath-link,$(build_shlibdir) -Wl,-z,origin
   RPATH_ORIGIN := -Wl,-rpath,'$$ORIGIN' -Wl,-z,origin
   RPATH_ESCAPED_ORIGIN := -Wl,-rpath,'\$$\$$ORIGIN' -Wl,-z,origin -Wl,-rpath-link,$(build_shlibdir)
-  RPATH_LIB := -Wl,-rpath,'$$ORIGIN/' -Wl,-z,origin
+  RPATH_LIB := -Wl,-rpath,'$$ORIGIN/julia' -Wl,-rpath,'$$ORIGIN' -Wl,-z,origin
 endif
 
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