Ensure that open(::Function, ::Cmd) waits for termination (#44078)

On Windows, we observed occasional issues where an error within the
function callback to the `open(::Function, ::Cmd)` method would cause
problems due to assuming that the opened process had finished by the
time the `open()` call was finished.  In most cases this was true,
however on Windows, it was found that we need to explicitly `wait()`
upon the process object to ensure that all file handles held by the
subprocess were properly closed by the time `open()` is finished.

Co-authored-by: Dilum Aluthge <dilum@aluthge.com>
(cherry picked from commit 623ceb7)

base/process.jl

@@ -389,13 +389,26 @@ Returns the value returned by `f`.
 """
 function open(f::Function, cmds::AbstractCmd, args...; kwargs...)
     P = open(cmds, args...; kwargs...)
+    function waitkill(P::Process)
+        close(P)
+        # 0.1 seconds after we hope it dies (from closing stdio),
+        # we kill the process with SIGTERM (15)
+        local t = Timer(0.1) do t
+            process_running(P) && kill(P)
+        end
+        wait(P)
+        close(t)
+    end
     ret = try
         f(P)
     catch
-        kill(P)
+        waitkill(P)
         rethrow()
-    finally
-        close(P.in)
+    end
+    close(P.in)
+    if !eof(P.out)
+        waitkill(P)
+        throw(_UVError("open(do)", UV_EPIPE))
     end
     success(P) || pipeline_error(P)
     return ret