Update pybind11 version used to 3.0.1 #5777

Job	Run time
build_windows (3.11)	39m 50s
build_linux (3.11)	34m 7s
build_linux (3.9)	34m 49s
build_windows (3.9)	38m 59s
build_windows (3.10)	38m 59s
build_linux (3.13)	35m 4s
build_linux (3.12)	34m 31s
build_windows (3.12)	42m 54s
build_windows (3.13)	38m 44s
build_linux (3.10)	35m 13s
test_examples_linux (3.11, false, ubuntu-22.04)	8m 30s
array-api-conformity (3.10, false, ubuntu-22.04)	5m 22s
test_linux (3.12, false, ubuntu-22.04)	11m 5s
test_linux (3.9, false, ubuntu-22.04)	10m 36s
test_linux (3.10, false, ubuntu-22.04)	10m 15s
test_linux (3.11, false, ubuntu-22.04)	10m 7s
test_linux (3.13, false, ubuntu-22.04)	10m 13s
test_windows (3.9, false, windows-latest)	14m 52s
test_windows (3.12, false, windows-latest)	12m 21s
test_windows (3.13, false, windows-latest)	13m 56s
test_windows (3.11, false, windows-latest)	14m 49s
test_windows (3.10, false, windows-latest)	16m 56s
upload_linux	0s
upload_windows	0s
Clean up anaconda packages	0s
	8h 32m 12s

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