feat: upgrade mongodb -> 6.8.0, handle throwing error on closed cursor in Mongoose

[vkarpov15]

Summary

We haven't upgraded to MongoDB Node driver 6.8 because we have a test failure due to a minor breaking change in the driver: cursor.next() no longer errors out after calling cursor.close(). We reported an issue in the MongoDB Node driver JIRA here: https://jira.mongodb.org/browse/NODE-6255 and the issue is in progress, but I'm thinking that 1) better for Mongoose to enforce this behavior if our tests rely on it, 2) we've already been blocked from upgrading to mongodb@6.8 for 6 weeks.

Examples

[hasezoey]

Code looks OK, though if we should go with the current solution and not get a answer in the JIRA, then it should likely be noted that the error (class & message) is different.

also the replicaset tests seem to fail consistently even after a re-run:

   3 failing
  1) Model
       bug fixes
         3.6 features
           watch()
             "after each" hook in "watch()":
     done() called multiple times in hook <Model bug fixes 3.6 features watch() "after each" hook in "watch()"> of file /home/runner/work/mongoose/mongoose/test/model.test.js; in addition, done() received error: MongoAPIError: ChangeStream is closed
    at ChangeStream._processChange (/home/runner/work/mongoose/mongoose/node_modules/mongodb/lib/change_stream.js:309:19)
    at ReadableCursorStream.<anonymous> (/home/runner/work/mongoose/mongoose/node_modules/mongodb/lib/change_stream.js:287:46)
    at ReadableCursorStream.emit (node:events:513:28)
    at addChunk (node:internal/streams/readable:315:12)
    at readableAddChunk (node:internal/streams/readable:289:9)
    at ReadableCursorStream.Readable.push (node:internal/streams/readable:228:10)
    at /home/runner/work/mongoose/mongoose/node_modules/mongodb/lib/cursor/abstract_cursor.js:649:26
    at runMicrotasks (<anonymous>)
    at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:96:5) {
  uncaught: true,
  [Symbol(errorLabels)]: Set(0) {}
}
  Error: done() called multiple times in hook <Model bug fixes 3.6 features watch() "after each" hook in "watch()"> of file /home/runner/work/mongoose/mongoose/test/model.test.js; in addition, done() received error: MongoAPIError: ChangeStream is closed
      at ChangeStream._processChange (node_modules/mongodb/lib/change_stream.js:309:19)
      at ReadableCursorStream.<anonymous> (node_modules/mongodb/lib/change_stream.js:287:46)
      at ReadableCursorStream.emit (node:events:513:28)
      at addChunk (node:internal/streams/readable:315:12)
      at readableAddChunk (node:internal/streams/readable:289:9)
      at ReadableCursorStream.Readable.push (node:internal/streams/readable:228:10)
      at /home/runner/work/mongoose/mongoose/node_modules/mongodb/lib/cursor/abstract_cursor.js:649:26
      at runMicrotasks (<anonymous>)
      at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:96:5) {
    uncaught: true,
    [Symbol(errorLabels)]: Set(0) {}
  }
      at process.emit (node:events:513:28)
      at process._fatalException (node:internal/process/execution:149:25)

  2) Model
       bug fixes
         3.6 features
           watch()
             watch() close() closes the stream (gh-7022):
     Uncaught MongoAPIError: ChangeStream is closed
      at ChangeStream._processChange (node_modules/mongodb/lib/change_stream.js:309:19)
      at ReadableCursorStream.<anonymous> (node_modules/mongodb/lib/change_stream.js:287:46)
      at ReadableCursorStream.emit (node:events:513:28)
      at addChunk (node:internal/streams/readable:315:12)
      at readableAddChunk (node:internal/streams/readable:289:9)
      at ReadableCursorStream.Readable.push (node:internal/streams/readable:228:10)
      at /home/runner/work/mongoose/mongoose/node_modules/mongodb/lib/cursor/abstract_cursor.js:649:26
      at runMicrotasks (<anonymous>)
      at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:96:5)

  3) Model
       bug fixes
         3.6 features
           watch()
             watch() close() closes the stream (gh-7022):
     Error: done() called multiple times in test <Model bug fixes 3.6 features watch() watch() close() closes the stream (gh-7022)> of file /home/runner/work/mongoose/mongoose/test/model.test.js
  

[hasezoey]

LGTM, though same comment as before about the JIRA:

though if we should go with the current solution and not get a answer in the JIRA, then it should likely be noted that the error (class & message) is different.

[vkarpov15]

We will make a note in the changelog that the error class and message changed